Monday, October 29, 2007

Flash Back


Tonight I have had a major flashback...walking into a hotel room all by myself pulling a suitcase. Wow, I was doing this frequently just a year and a half ago and now it's a flashback memory.

Today at work was really fun in a way that doing something different is fun - I'm looking forward to going to RSNA and doing the professional thing for a couple of weeks but really glad that I am not choosing to do this full-time.

I can't believe how much I am happy to spend time with my boys. Most days I could be such a better parents...oh such a better mom to those wonderful boys. But being able to spend so much more time together has been so great.

Thank you so much to my husband for his idea for me to spend the time with the boys before they got too hold. Thank you so much to my husband for being such a wonderful financial manager so we could be in this place. Thank you so much to my husband for being the wonderful guy that he is and letting his wife do a bunch of crazy stuff with our lives!

In the mean time, I'll enjoy the hotel time and try and figure out what I did with myself in years past with my time here in the hotel. Translation - I'll probably end up working a bunch this week! I'll be very thankful for only having to work two days next week!

Monday, October 22, 2007

The windows...

I posted in July about the cutting of holes in the basement for windows and I was a little nervous. The cutting and framing in went wonderfully but it became a saga after that...

We contracted with a company in Jeff City (about 90 miles away) to do the cutting. They had a minimum fee which was about the same price as to cut what we wanted. We pulled a permit with the city like good little citizens. Before the cutting company was scheduled to come, my husband called the city to check on the permit status. He was told that it was approved but the company needed to register with the city and pay an appropriate fee before we would actually have the permit. So when the holes were cut, we didn't have an approved permit in hand from the city - no big deal we thought.

Weeks later the company got their fee paid and Todd was able to pick up the permit. The permit was approved *WITH* modifications to the design...the biggest change to the design required 3 more inches cut into the concrete! Ummm - that means another minimum cutting fee AND removal of the glass block windows which may not be able to be re-used. Todd had the city inspector come out and he did not approve the work that was done because it did not meet city code (we didn't have a double header). It was worth a try to get them approved...Fortunately the city inspector did say that if we could get a professional engineer to approve his plan, then the city will most likely approve it.

So you would think that Todd could get some help from the civil engineering department at school but he didn't find anyone willing to put their stamp of approval on his plans. So he gets a recommendation for an engineering firm here in town and makes an appointment. Nice visit with an engineer and Todd gets a really good pointer on taking a CAD class from the local technical school instead of the university. (Having this class makes him very marketable as an intern/coop type person.) A week later, we get word that the plans didn't get approved but he does have a suggestion that does not include cutting more into the cement.

Todd stews over the option that was presented and talks with my dad and others on their thoughts. We have sealed windows and LOVE the new light that we have. The permit is outstanding for 180 days there isn't any huge rush to do anything. He's also trying to figure out how to do the retro fit without having to remove all of the siding from the back of the house to put in the recommended piece of steel! Fall semester starts and one of Todd's classes is "Structures". He's learning how to figure out if his windows are strong enough to support the house above it and the variables involved with that. He goes back to his design and looks at it and does some more math and some more math.

Finally he comes to a point where he doesn't see why his design doesn't work with what he has learned in school. He schedules an appointment with the engineer again to understand why his design doesn't work - a reality check to see where education and real life do or don't meet. The day before the meeting is scheduled, the other partner in the engineering firm just happens to be at church!

The meeting was great success - the office is a 2 minute bike ride away from the house but Todd had to call before he got home to tell me. The engineer didn't account for one large beam in each window that Todd put in so the plans were approved. Yippee! The engineer invited Todd to come in and apply for a summer job as well! (And Tuesday night is CAD class.)

So this is very much a situation where God works for the good, even though the first indication wasn't something that we thought was good! Todd wouldn't be taking the CAD class now and he wouldn't have had a good lead on a summer position where they have already seen some of this work!

The windows are in the process of being trimmed out now...the light has been truly wonderful!

Friday, October 19, 2007

Keeping Busy Again...

It's almost the end of October and I haven't made any posts yet this month...so a quick follow-up on what's been happening.

I met the boys and Jenny in Kansas City at the end of their roadtrip. We all had a good time in Kansas City and packed in a lot! We saw Cerner friends, neighborhood friends, church friends, friends of friends, my new manager, some clients and drove a lot of miles. Across town it way different in KC versus Rolla!

I definitely kept busy while the boys were gone, but not too busy. Todd had five tests while they were gone so even though it sounded like great couple time, we didn't have too many lazy evenings to just "hang out" together. We did pretty much eat by candlelight most nights - by my husband's request!

We were home for a few days - tried to get back in the routine again and then we were off to Saturday again to the Missouri entertainment mecca - Branson. We met some friends of my parents there. Just so happened that these friends met my parents during their Rolla grad school summers! Todd came home to go to school and the boys and I stayed a few days longer. Their time share is on a golf course and the evening activity was to hunt for golf balls. I think that they found over 150 of them in a few days.

This weekend is home again. The last soccer games for the boys on Saturday and probably the UMR football game...maybe some laundry and good old house cleaning!